Sara Andersen is a trained sexologist, couples therapy student and permanent writer at Klub Venus. You can follow Sara on Instagram: @saraandersennn
When you feel like going hunting in the world of sex toys, there can be many different emotions in your backpack; you can feel excited, curious and happy - but there can also be a feeling of shame and fear of touch. Sex and masturbation are still taboo for many. It is important to remember that it is completely natural and healthy! When we keep silent about all the negative feelings, the shame is allowed to grow. Fortunately, we are seeing an increase in openness about sex, with a self-loving standpoint. Especially here at Club Venus, we want to break the taboos surrounding sexuality, masturbation and sex toys.
When you have to find your new sex toy, it is important to follow your desire and try it out. Also remember that your sexuality changes which can make for the most beautiful collection of vibrating beauties <3 wuhu! You must also remember that masturbation is not necessarily just stimulation of the abdomen. Feel free to use the vibrating sensations on the whole body and explore your other erogenous zones - the body is full of them! Whatever is great for you!
Here is a small reference work on some different bestsellers at Klub Venus and what they can actually do:
Mushy
Mushy is a good beginner vibrator that has a cute shape like a pink mushroom. It is quiet and can also be taken into the bath for a delicious vibrating session. It fits well in the hand and is very easy to use because it has a really good width.
It can be used both alone and with others - just where you want! And it can be used by everyone <3 That's why it's also really good for couples, where you can use it up and down the shaft of the penis or around the clitoris, for example. We don't feel that anyone, regardless of gender, should be cheated of the vibrations that sweet Mushy can deliver <3
Woody
Woody can be used for both internal and external stimulation. With a suction function with a simulating tongue, a g-spot stimulating and vibrating shaft, it can be used on e.g. the clitoris, the nipples, vaginally, the perineum, anally or just where it feels most pleasant to you. It can be used by all bodies, and send you to heaven on the most delicious rocket <3 It's also great flex that Woody is so flexible in the shaft, so it can be used in different ways, and just to how your body is beautifully built.
With its many functions, you can both take a "quickie" if you want, but you can actually also build a really nice dynamic act, where you slowly build up the enjoyment and use the different parts of Woody for several things. For example, start simply with the vibrating shaft on the body where it feels nice, where you eventually hit the abdomen. Then insert the shaft and turn on the g-spot stimulation, where you then finally turn on the suction function. YUM! It can also easily be used with a partner, where you, for example, use the suction function on the clitoris/anus while being penetrated <3
Bonus info: Many in our community achieve squirt orgasms with Woody, as it stimulates the g-spot really well. So if you want to explore it, possibly move the shaft up and down towards the stomach while it is inserted into the vagina.
Bunny
Bunny is a hit! This iconic g-spot vibrator is delightfully intense, and it is equipped with a special thrusting function that makes it move up and down in small thrusting movements. YES THANK YOU! There are a total of 18 different vibration and thrusting patterns, so you can find the one that suits you exactly according to fit and mood <3 When it thrusts itself, you can relax more in the hand with which you introduce Bunny, since you don't necessarily have to move it back and forth yourself. It can give you plenty of opportunity to relax and just enjoy the intense waves that make you slosh with pure niceness in your abdomen. On top of that, the "Bunny head" is made of lovely soft material, which "taps" e.g. your clitoris in a wonderful way.
S assy
S-assy is a cute little buttplug with a built-in vibrator for all butts <3 It is both quiet and waterproof. Win! S-assy is a buttplug that can be used by everyone - even beginners who are new to exploring the fine butt.
Extra info about the anus <3:
Around the opening of the anus there are many nerve endings, which make the zone extra sensitive. Therefore, it can be an enormously wonderful sensation to be touched there (of course with a good warm-up). Here, people with a vulva can achieve deep pleasure by introducing, for example, a butt plug/anal dildo/penis, as you also stimulate the back wall of the vagina and the surrounding tissue at the clitoris. People with a penis have a prostate in their abdomen, which is a gland about the size of a walnut, which is a nice pleasure portal. It swells during arousal with the help of increased blood supply, and from the rectum it can be stimulated and give an intense and delicious pleasure! Many feel it shameful to introduce anal sex to their sex life, but it is completely natural, and if you want to investigate and enjoy the many benefits that come with it, then allow yourself to explore <3 Remember to take you/you have a good time playing with your beautiful bottoms <3 You can read more about anal sex in our guide: Going anal? A guide to anal sex.
Remember a good, water-based lubricant for all wonderful masturbation sessions. It makes it a nicer and super silky experience!