Q&A: Alexander & Vanessa
Q: Have there been any norms or ideas about how sex should be that you have had to break down in your relationship? Vanessa: I had the honor of having...
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"With the toys we get started, and then the desire comes"
With the toys we get started, and then the desire comes. After being together for many years, my wife and I do not have worse sex together. In fact, our...
Review: Jump Up, Jump Down, Jump with Bunny
Bunny is an amazing replacement for you who are into wild sex with your partner(s), but are just as crazy about yourself and want to experiment alone.
A big yellow stripe
"A large yellow stripe," I replied, and, after a breath, followed up with the words; "The yellow stripe should represent my first orgasm".
Survey: How do we really masturbate?
How many times have you masturbated in the last month? How long do you typically masturbate? And what methods do you use when you masturbate? These are some of the...
I'm still trying to navigate when I'm hypomanic
When I'm hypomanic, sex is a breeze. It's fun and exciting. I often feel incredibly sexy and ready for everything - even if it's something I couldn't normally come up...
Q&A: Nanna Liljekvist
Throughout my youth I have had a hateful relationship with my body. The last thing I want is for my children to have the same relationship with their body that...
Q&A: Annahita Tajik
I hope to de-taboo talk about sex and the shame that comes with it in ethnic minorities
My life is too short to have to live my life in the shadow of myself
As I began to stand up for my sexuality, it dawned on me that for far too long my sexuality has been filled with guilt, shame and fear. And it...
None of my friends were queer
The moment she put me in her bed and my whole body was shaking with desire, it all dawned on me. All of a sudden, nothing was scary anymore, and...
Q&A: Alfie Beier
I think a lot of people forget that the talk about sex doesn't have to be about what goes on in YOUR specific bedroom, but more of a fluid conversation...
I'm a meat doll
Liva has written a text about having sex with an overriding body shame. About how self-critical thoughts and shame stand in the way, depriving her of sexual pleasure and intimacy....