Looking for new sex ideas? If you lack inspiration, we have collected the best ideas for sex right here. You get 17 well-tested sex tricks that you can choose from if you want to shake off the routine a bit or try something new. Be careful!
1. Sit on your face
Sit on your partner's face and ask them to give you oral sex. Ok ok, you shouldn't sit too heavy and also just remember that your sex partner must be able to breathe in the meantime. If there is a headboard on the bed, you can rest your arms on it in the meantime to relieve some pressure from your partner's face.
2. Give a blowjob with ice in the mouth
Suck on an ice cube just before you put your lips around the penis. Maybe even surprise your partner by not letting them in on your cold plans beforehand. It can be both cheeky and titillating with a little cold shiver.
3. Try a butt plug
Throw yourself into anal play and test what sex with a buttplug feels like. Some experience orgasms that are taken to completely new heights - others think it's nice to feel extra full. But just read our guide on how to use a buttplug first.
4. Use lubricant
If you haven't already tried lube sex, you might feel a little cheated for all the orgasms you missed out on before you discovered how delicious a drop of lube can feel. It is both for you who find it difficult to get wet , and for you who love the feeling of velvety sex.
5. Rotate the abdomen
If your partner has a penis, ask them to rotate their abdomen clockwise while you have sex. Yes, it takes a little practice, but when the technique is in place, it can feel really delicious - it works both if they take you from behind or in a position where you lie down and they are on their knees.
6. Try edging
Take a short break just before you (or one of you) are about to come. Hug, caress and kiss each other a little before you continue. Pause again just before one of you is about to come and keep the excitement on the edge all the time. When you finally allow yourself to come, the orgasm will feel even more explosive.
7. Try the 69er
The 69, where you and your partner lie on top of each other, belly to belly but with your faces out from the other's crotch, can seem a bit clunky and awkward. But once you get over the clumsy moment when one is about to give the other a knee in the eye while you are lying down, oral sex in the 69 is something so naughty. The coolest thing is that both can have oral sex at the same time. The hardest thing is to enjoy being licked while you also have to remember to pamper your partner with oral sex.
8. Place a pillow under the butt
If you have a vagina, you can renew the classic missionary position by pushing a pillow under the bum. It tilts your hips and abdomen at an angle that causes the penis to hit your g-spot every time your partner thrusts.
9. Try an inverted pony
If your partner has a penis, you certainly know the classic where you sit on top of them. But try to sit upside down. The penis will hit your g-spot in a whole new way as you move up and down, and your sex partner can caress or play with your bum in the meantime if you like.
10. Play with temperatures
Get yourself a glass dildo and put it in the fridge. Let the have your partner move it around your body - from nipples to clit - and let them tickle you. A game that can be made even more naughty with a blindfold.
11. Watch porn together
Watch porn as a prelude to sex. Or have sex while watching porn. You can also take turns giving each other oral sex in the meantime. Find inspiration in our guide to porn for women . Alternatively, you can also listen to audio porn - maybe it seems even more exciting. We have collected some of the best erotic podcasts .
12. Play twisters
Yes, the good old game you might remember from the holiday home. Play Twister with your girlfriend or sex partner. Every time you lose, you have to take off a piece of clothing. The game is only over when you can't keep your fingers off each other anymore.
13. Change rhythm
A new rhythm can make sex feel completely different. If one of you has a penis, you can also vary how deep they thrust. Are you sitting, e.g. on top of them, for teasing, you can just let yourself slide a little bit down over the penis and then only with every third or fourth thrust let yourself slide all the way down over the penis, so that it gets as deep into you as it can be done. And vice versa, if you yourself are equipped with a penis, you can just let the penis head slip in when you thrust - and then every fourth thrust thrust deep and all the way to the root.
14. Read sex novels
Read aloud to each other. One may possibly give the other oral sex in the meantime to make it extra naughty. Yes please!
15. Forbid each other to touch
One of you can masturbate in front of the other, while it is strictly forbidden for them to touch you. They don't have to do anything but watch. That way you might also learn something new about what the other likes.
16. Cramping during sex
If you have a vagina, it can feel nice for both you and your partner if you squeeze your pelvic floor while you have sex. It can also help you come if you tense up during sex.
17. Give your partner oral sex while on the phone
Crouch down in front of your partner, the next time they're on the phone with something as boring as the bank or Gallup, zip their pants down and give them oral sex in the process. However, remember to pay attention to whether your partner also thinks it's cool - consent must always be given before sex.
