Sex games can be a lot more than role playing. We have collected the best suggestions for erotic games that you can try out with your sex partner if you need new inspiration, want to explore new sides of each other and yourself, or you just need to laugh together. Because hey, sex doesn't have to be either super serious or aesthetic.
And pssst... if you don't find what you're looking for here, we've also made a guide with 17 brilliant sex ideas .
Sex games bring you together
According to experts , sex games are a fantastic opportunity to get closer to each other. During sex games, you learn each other's bodies and want to know. Maybe you dare to be more honest with yourself and each other, or you discover kinks, feelings and desires you didn't even know you had.
The games can be anything from sex challenges and erotic games with blindfolds to couple games that are made for the purpose: E.g. dice with sex positions or kamasutra card game. But remember: It's important that you both play along, feel safe and don't let yourself be pressured into something you don't want to do.
As with all other forms of sex, consent is the alpha and omega. Always.
And are you afraid that it will feel awkward and cheesy? So laugh! Sex should be fun, and if nothing else, you can always interrupt and ask if you should just bang.
In the list here, you will find 10 ideas for sex games that you (perhaps) did not know beforehand. It is always a pleasure to be allowed to bring inspiration to our customers' sex lives. So here goes:
10 sex games you can try at home
1. Find the honey
While your partner closes his eyes, you dip your finger in honey and smear a small area of the body with the sweet stuff. Now it's your partner's turn to find the honey using only his tongue. Once they've licked their way to wherever you 'hid' your honey, you switch roles and it's your partner's turn to hide honey on their body. You can start by smearing honey in a not-so-hidden and intimate place and slowly, as the play progresses, place it closer and closer to the sex and erogenous zones: Behind the ear, on the inner thigh, on the pubic bone... Pro tip: Take off your clothes , before you get started. It could well be a sticky game.
2. Remote control me
Place a remote-controlled vibrator in your panties and entrust your partner with remote control, e.g. just before you go into town, for a family party or just a trip to Netto. Being in control of others can be quite arousing in itself. But what about adding an extra dimension to the game? Like, for example, that your partner has to press the remote control every time someone in the company makes a toast? Or every time the waiter at the restaurant addresses you at the table? At Klub Venus you will find i.a. our Dory - a small and rather cute vibrator with accompanying remote control .
3. A new sex position 30 days in a row
A sex challenge that might throw off a new favorite position. For 30 days in a row, you must try a new sex position that you have not tried before. You can possibly take turns to choose. You will definitely end up in some positions that do nothing special for either of you. But you might also find sex positions the answer to the holy grail. Who knows.
4. The great baking contest
No, no, it doesn't mean that you have to watch television. Find icing, crumble, fondant, sugar pearls and whipped cream. Then it's time for the syringe bags (sorry!). Decorate each other's genitals with the delights - and lick it off afterwards.
5. Drawing game
Remember when you were a kid and you took turns guessing what you drew on each other's backs? And were you one of those people who always guessed wrong on purpose because it felt so good that you just wanted your drawing buddy to keep running his finger up your back? Guess what: It hasn't gotten any less nice. You can take turns drawing each other's backs, stomachs and buttocks - without clothes on, of course.
6. Red yellow green
Give your partner an intimate massage and instruct them the whole time to let you know if your touch is red, yellow or green. Red: The touch is not exciting to them. Yellow: The touch is not directly unpleasant, but you may want to keep exploring the area a little longer. Green: Your touch feels delicious and you should continue massaging the area.
7. Paint each other
... with body paint. The feeling of a cool brush on bare skin can be really titillating. Pro tip: Make sure the bedding is not in a delicate colour. We do not guarantee that it will ever be completely clean again.
8. Toy roulette
Visit your favorite online sex toy shop (we won't mention who it might be) and look up the bestseller list. Now your partner has to let the finger run up and down the screen with products while you close your eyes. When you say “stop”, your partner must click on the toy their finger is next to, put it in the basket and click it home. Whatever it is. But beware, you risk becoming addicted to a new toy you didn't even know you were missing in your life.
9. Dress up
It doesn't have to be the classic with the nurse or maid in a short dress. Put on a wig, apply your make-up differently than you normally do, put on completely different clothes, you can even change your perfume. The fact that you smell different and look different can be really irritating.
10. Truth or Consequence
The schoolyard game, which will probably never go out of style, can also be played as a sex game. Here it is important that you do not exceed each other's limits, even if there must still be a challenge in the game. This is where you can get to know each other's innermost fantasies, and also here where you can communicate what you want to do to each other.
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