What is an anal chain?
The word 'anal chain' covers a whole category of sex toys for anal sex. In short, an anal chain is a chain with balls that you can put up in the anus of yourself or your partner when you have sex. The balls often vary in size, so that the smallest ball sits first on the chain and the largest sits last on the chain. In this way, you increase the size, the further into the chain the chain enters the anus.
You can buy anal chains - or 'love beads' and 'anal beads' as they are also called - in many different materials, from soft silicone to hard glass. Some can also vibrate. Some love beads have round balls, while others are diamond-shaped and tapered at one end, so they are easy to insert into the anus.
An anal chain is not the same as a butt plug. A plug is typically shorter and often wider/thicker than an anal chain and is intended for you to wear while having sex, so that you feel filled. An anal chain, on the other hand, is intended for you to pull out ball by ball - this is where the magic happens: The feeling of having the chain pulled out stimulates the many nerves that sit around the anus.
If you have not experimented with butt play before, you can start by reading our guide to anal sex . If you want to explore your butt even more, we have also found 9 good tips on how to use a butt plug . If you are not sure whether anal sex is for you, and you still want to learn more about the area, you can read about other people's experiences in the guide Anal sex experiences: 13 stories from the real world . We also offer anal toys at Club Venus.
But now to return to the many joys of the anal chain...
How to use an anal chain?
Some enjoy having sex with the anal chain in place, while others think it's the coolest feeling when the chain is pulled out ball by ball. It is important to use a good lubricant, because your anus does not produce moisture itself, and it is absolutely necessary if the introduction of your love beads is to go smoothly.
Make sure to warm up well first. That is to say: the sphincter around the anus must be as relaxed as possible. You can ensure this by massaging gently around it, e.g. with the tip of the outer ball of the anal chain. Take it easy and when you or your partner are ready, carefully insert the first bead. And so you continue. Make sure you also take it at a calm pace when the chain has to be pulled out again. Especially if you are beginners.
Important: Safety above all else!
Always make sure the anal chain you use has some kind of backstop or a handle you can hold on to while it's in your butt. In contrast to e.g. vagina, your anus can form a vacuum and suck up the anal chain. Therefore: Always have a good grip on the chain, if there is not a wide stop block at the end of it.
Here are 9 good tips for anal play with your anal chain
1. Consider the shape of the balls - If this is the first time you are using an anal chain, it may be advantageous to choose one with balls that have a rounded taper. In this way, they slide in more easily and comfortably.
2. Enhance the orgasm with timing - Try to hit the perfect timing and pull the chain out exactly when the orgasm hits. If it is your partner who has the chain sitting, watch for signs that climax is near and then start pulling out the balls one by one. It can enhance the orgasm.
3. Play with the pace - Experiment with how fast the balls should be pulled out. Does it feel best if it's done slowly, or does it feel best if it's done with a firmer, not-so-slow motion? But be a little careful: It's not safe, it feels good to have the chain pulled out too quickly.
4. Also use the chain alone - You can also use a chain with anal balls when you masturbate alone. Solo sex can easily be anal sex.
5. Make do with a ball or two - You don't have to put all the balls in to enjoy your love beads. You can easily just insert some or a few of them into the anus and then pull them out again. Maybe a tip for you who have just started experimenting with anal sex.
6. Remember hygiene - Regardless of whether you use sex toys or not, good hygiene is always important, especially during anal play. Always make sure the toys you use are clean. Never use the same toy, the same finger, or the same penis in both the anus and vagina without cleaning between changes.
7. Only use anal chains that are actually anal chains - Sex toys are made of materials that are approved for the purpose and which ensure that you will not get hurt. Keep anything away from your ass that isn't made to stop in it.
8. Don't forget the vagina - If you have a vulva, you can also experiment with introducing the chain into the vagina. It's not what it's really made for, but some people think it's a nice feeling, so feel free to experiment. However, there is one precaution: do not use sex toys that have been used for anal sex in the vagina without disinfecting them first. Either you can have two chains: One for the butt and one for the vagina. Or you can make sure to boil your anal beads after use, so you are sure that they are completely clean.
9. Play with different types of beads - The material the chain is made of has everything to say in relation to the feeling of having it in the anus. Silicone is e.g. soft and pliable, while glass and steel are hard and can be both cold and hot - it also gives the opportunity to play with the temperatures, which can be both lovely and titillating.
