If you’ve only just jumped into a new world of wonderfull vibes, you might want to start out with something simple and dicreet – maybe something less vulgar? Perhaps something in cute pastel colors with a silky soft feel? Don’ worry – we got your back.
We’ll take you along and guide you on your new vibie adventure!
Don’t miss out on our 7 tips, on how to get more use of your vibrator at the end of the guide.
Welcome to our wonderfully vibing world!
How do you use a vibrator?
You can use your vibrator in many different ways. You can either use it alone while masturbating or you can use it with a sex parter. A vibrator is perfect for stimulating your clitoris, nipples, perinium, penis – Yup! Pretty much whereever it feels good to you.
You can move your vibrator back and forth, controle it with your hand while having sex or even lay on top of it. Or ask your sex partner to use the vibrator on you.
The best way of finding out what you like, is simply trying different things and noticing when something feels good. If your used to masturbating with your finger – maybe you feel like giving your finger a break – and this is where your new vibrator cumes in handy (literally)! A vibrator will most likely give you a different kind of orgasm as the vibrations are much faster and more intense than your fingers could ever move.
Check out our 7 tips on how to get more use out of your vibrator at the end of this guide.
Why use a vibrator?
For some poeple being stimulated by a finger or being penetrated by a penis just isn’t enough to orgasm. Some of us need stronger and more persistent stimulation in order to cum. If this sounds like you – a vibrator just might become your new very best friend. As they are specifically designed to make YOU cum.
There doesn’t exist a vibrator with a orgasm warranty – but sex with a vibrator can be a really good step to start exploring yourself, and also it just feels sooo good – even if you don’t climax. If you haven’t had an orgasm before using a vibrator might make it easier for you.
Where do you use a vibrator?
You can use a vibrator on many parts of your body – anywhere that feels good to YOU. You can use it on your clitoris, perinium, penis, around anus, on your bum or nipples. And the list goes on! Try some different things and see what works for you.
Should you keep your vibrator moving?
You can move your vibrator back and forth on you clitoris, perinium or anywhere else on your body. If the vibrations feel too intens when you hold the vibrator still, try to notice what feels ecspecially good when you move the vibrator around.
I which positions can you use a vibrator?
You can use your vibrator in any which position you like. While laying down, laying on your side sitting up or when you’re having sex in doggy style. Try sitting on top of your vibrator or press it againt your genitals while laying flat on your stomic.
The only thing that can be a bit tricky is having enough room to stimulate yourself while having sex i missionary – especially if your partner is laying on top of you. If that’s the case try putting a pillow underneath your bum so your abdomen is lifted. That makes it easier for your partner to sit upright while penetrating you and for you to stimulate your clitoris at the same time.
Is it easier to orgasm with a vibrator?
For some people, using a vibrator, makes it much easier to orgasm. But keep in mind it’s extremely individual, what feels good and how you cum! If you haven’t had an orgasm yet, maybe your new vibe will help you get there!
Start by getting to know your body
If you’re new to using a vibrator, getting to know your body first is essential, and your vibrator can help you explore. Touch yourself on different parts of your body first without your vibrator and later try it with your vibrator and see how it feels.
Don’t worry if you feel awkward and strange at first. It’s not about doing it the right way or looking a certain way while doing it. It’s all about what FEELS good to you in this moment!
As an example you can try moving your vibrator back and forth on top of your underwear. How does it feel if you stroke your labia with it? And how does it feel when you touch your vibrator against your clitoris at different intensities?
Can you use a vibrator for anal sex?
You can use your vibrator anally. Try it out and see what feels good to you. You can start out by carefully moving your vibrator around the anus. But be carefull using small vibrators for analsex, keep a good grip on your sextoy, if the toy slips up too high – you probably won’t avoid an awkward trip to the emergency room.
Also remember to put a condom on your vibrator if you use it both for anal sex and vaginal sex – no your vibrator won’t make you pregnant, but the condom will make sure you don’t transfer bacteria to your vagina. Always remember to change the condom before you insert your toy vaginally.
Use Lube!
It’s always a good idea to use lube. Also when you’re using a vibrator. It makes the experience more intense and gives you even more pleasure, as the lube will make your vibrator move effortlesly on your skin.
The constant vibrations can sometimes irritate the skin, if you haven’t dripped a few magic drops of lube on your toy before!
When you use lube with a silicone sextoy make sure to use a waterbased lube. Using a silicone lube og silicone toys can cause for bad reactions.
Try our waterbased lubricant from sensuva
Clean your vibe!
Remember to always clean your vibrator after use. If you want to use soap make sure it’s very mild, so it doesn’t harm your toy or your genitals when you use it again. The best thing is to use a toycleaner, which is specifically made for toycleaning.
If your vibrator isn’t waterproof, be carefull not to get any water inside the motor when you wash it!
Try our Think clean toycleaner from Sensuva
Choose the right vibrator
There’s a lot of different vibrators out there. They come in all shapes, colors, sizes and are designed for different things. Some vibrators are small, discreet made for clitoral stimulation. Others focus on stimulating your g-spot – cuddling it with sweet vibrations.
If you haven’t tried using a vibrator before, we recommend you start out with a clitoral vibrator and see what feels good to you.
Here we give you the overview of the types of vibrators you’ll find on klub venus:
Clitoral vibrator
A clitoral vibrator is designed to stimulate your clitoris. The little knot, located on the upper part between your labia, is only a small part of the clitoris. The clitoris streches inside your body er is between 9-12 cm long og 6 cm wide. The head of the clitoris (the little knot) is where 8.000 nerveendings meet. If you stimulate this part of your clitoris either using your hand or your vibrator, if will give you an intense and pleasing feeling, when stimulated the right way.
A clitoris vibrator is typically designed to hit the clitorishead gently and precisely. But a clitoris vibrator can easily be used on other parts of your body as well, whereever it feels good to you. Try using it on your nipples, your butt or on your perinium.
A clitoral vibrator is usually pretty small in size, discreet and easy to carry around. Which has it’s perks!
Try our iroha mini klitoris vibrator from Iroha by Tenga
Wand vibrator
A wand vibrator kind of looks like a microphone. Originally the wand was invented with the purpose to massage sore muscels, but it didn’t take long before the wandnmassagers other perks were discovered!
Besides relieving sore neck muscels, the wands vibrations feel really good on your clitoris, nipples, penis and other erogenous zones.
Your wand will deliver powerfull vibrations and the head is typically flexible, which makes is easy for you to hit the right spot!
Try our cheeky wand vibrator from Pillow Talk
G-spot vibrator
G-spot vibrators are designed to hit your g-spot og stimulate it in the best way. They typically have a curving dildo shape. The curve makes it hit your g-spot when you insert it.
The g-spot is a small sensitive spot located on the upper side of your vaginal wall towards your belly, Make sure to turn your vibrator the right way (making sure it curves towards your belly), when trying to hit your g-spot or else you might miss it.
Rabbit vibrator
It’s said that the rabbit vibrator was invented in japan, because it was forbidden to make dildos resembling the male genetalia. From that the rabbit vibrator was born.
The Rabbit vibrator has two ”ears” that tiggles the clitoris while the longer phallic form stimulates you internally. Some rabbit vibrators are also g-spot vibrators. The both in –and external stimulation of your two hotspots lead to intense orgasms.
Try our Xena rabbit vibrator here!
Bullet vibrator
A bullet vibrator is usually not bigger than the palm of your hand. Bullet vibrators are usually designed for clitoral stimulation, even though there are small their power should not be underestimated. And it’s easy to carry with you where ever you go!
Prøv vores bullet vibrator Zee fra Dame products
Suction vibrators and sonic waves
It’s a whole new sensation jumping into the world of suction vibes and sonic waves. Some vibrators stimulate your clitoris with a different techonology that is either sonic waves or sunction. It’s very different from classic vibrators but definitely something to try out!
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7 tips : How to use your vibrator
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Start by touching yourself to get in the mood, before you turn on the vibrator. There’s nothing wrong with going straight at it with your vibrator, but a slower start can sometimes lead to stronger orgasms.
- Stimulate yourself on top of your clothes. How does it feel if you keep your underwear on and stimulate your erogenous zones with your clothes on? Maybe you’ll be pleasantly suprised.
- Move your vibrator. Some people experience that the clitoris or other erogoneus zones can become pretty numb if the intense vibrations focus on one spot for too long (Btw it’s not dangerous). Try moving your vibrator around in circles or back and forth!
- Stimulate yourself in front of your partner. If you’re having sex with a partner let them watch you! It can be a big turn on and GREAT forplay.
- Use your vibrator while spooning. When spooning with your partner, let them enter you from behind with a penis, a finger or a dildo, while you press your top leg behind and around your partners body and use your vibrator to stimulate yourself.
- Get comfortable! Place some pillows behind your bag, lean backwards, bend and spread your legs, while pushing your abdomen forward. Use your vibrator to stimulate yourself (or get your partner to do it) while your partner goes down on you orally or enters you with a finger.
- Use your vibrator when giving a blowjob. Don’t place the vibrator directly on the penis, men let it rest against your cheek, while giving your partner a blowjob or stimualte your partners perinium.
