Squirt orgasm guide: 12 tips that will make you squirt

You may have heard others call it 'the female ejaculation' or 'the female ejaculation'. Some refer to it as the 'fountain orgasm'. And others have dubbed it the 'wet orgasm'. You may also have heard of 'squirting'.

This is of course the squirt orgasm.

It is surrounded by a bit of mystery. Because what is a squirt orgasm? Can everyone have a squirt orgasm? And how do you get a squirt orgasm?

First things first: If you have not experienced a squirt orgasm yet, you are completely normal. And you don't have to deliver a huge fountain when you orgasm in order to enjoy sex. A squirt orgasm is also not a sign that the sex you just had was extra good.

Squirt orgasms can be wonderful. They can be lovely. And if you want to experience one, go ahead and experiment. We help you on your way!

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How to get a squirt orgasm?

The secret behind a squirt orgasm is persistent and powerful stimulation of your g-spot , while you or your sex partner also caress one or more of your other erogenous zones. You must make sure you relax in the meantime - and then you must have drunk plenty of fluids.

Get our step-by-step guide to the fountain orgasm here.

How to have a squirt orgasm - 12 tips

Do your pinching exercises - not while you're trying to have a wet orgasm, but before you start. Strong muscles in the pelvic floor are absolutely essential for you to have an orgasm at all. This also applies to the squirt orgasm. So pinch, pinch, pinch ! It may well be boring, but it pays off - we promise!
Feel safe - make sure you feel safe in the situation. That may be easier said than done. But if you're not comfortable, you can't let go of control, and it's necessary if you want to spray. Experiment with someone you are comfortable with and make sure you have all the time and peace you need.
Get help from your sex partner - it can be hard work working on such an orgasm. Especially because your g-spot needs to be strongly stimulated. Go on the orgasm adventure with your girlfriend or sex partner, so he can do the hard work while you relax and enjoy.
Drink plenty of fluids - if you have to get out, you also have to get in. Your body needs you to drink if it is to produce something to spray with.
Pee off - before you start, remember to pee. Then you are sure that it is not urine that sprays out of you.
Use lube - it can make it all, well, slide a little easier.
Lie on your back with your legs up - that way you don't press your feet against the mattress and can therefore more easily relax your abdomen . You don't have to use this trick to get splashing, but it can help the tsunami along a bit.
Stimulate the g-spot - that was all the preparation. Now we have reached the sex. As mentioned, the secret is stimulation of the g-spot. Find the small point on the vaginal wall and keep constant and persistent pressure on it. It can be with either a finger or a g-spot vibrator. When you feel like you need to pee, you know you've found the g-spot and have enough pressure on it.
Keep a constant pressure on the g-spot - it is the alpha and omega of your squirting orgasm. In the meantime, you or your sex partner can caress e.g. clitoris, your nipples or other erogenous zones where you get turned on by being touched. You can e.g. use a clitoral vibrator to stimulate the clitoris in the meantime.
Increase the pressure - the more excited you get, the harder your sex partner has to press the g-spot. Of course, it shouldn't hurt, but it should be a fairly strong pressure. Move your finger on the g-spot in circles or up and down - vary the movements so it doesn't get too monotonous.
Keep the pressure a little longer - when your sex partner starts to feel contractions in your vagina, he must keep the pressure on the g-spot a little longer. Maybe even a few minutes. It takes time to learn to spray.
Did it succeed? - If it was the first time you were looking for your squirt orgasm, it probably didn't. It takes time. Get on the vibrator again and continue playing with your body and your sex life!

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Sex toys for squirt orgasms

The hunt for the wet orgasm can become easier with the right tool. Use a g-spot vibrator that hits your g-spot - that's the whole secret behind the squirt orgasm. It can both be a battery-powered vibrator or a glass dildo that bends easily. A clitoral vibrator that can tirelessly stimulate the clitoris is also a good investment.

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What is a squirt orgasm?

No one knows exactly what a squirt orgasm actually is - unfortunately, not much research is done on the matter. If your biological gender is female, you can (perhaps) experience a squirt orgasm: In short, it's when liquid squirts out of the urethra when you have an orgasm.

The liquid apparently comes - as I said: Not much research is being done on that matter - from what are called the glands of the vagina, which can best be compared to the prostate in the male body.

Does pee come out when the woman has a squirt orgasm?

Yes and no. Urine may come out with the liquid when you have a squirt orgasm. But investigations show that the liquid also consists of another 'juice'. Not much research has been done in the area, but both the Science Magazine on DR3 and a French researcher's experiments prove that it is not pee.

Can everyone have a squirt orgasm?

Perhaps. An American study found that 14 percent of participants squirted during most orgasms, and that 54 percent had experienced a squirt orgasm at least once. Many people never experience a squirt orgasm - and it's perfectly normal not to squirt when you come.

If you want to experience what it feels like to squirt, practice, experiment, and keep at it. But remember that it must be fun at the same time. And if you don't spray, never mind.

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