I had never seen myself as part of my own sex life
Five years after my sexual debut, I was asked a question that simultaneously opened up a whole new world for me, while at the same time creating great confusion within...
VENUS PAPERS
Study: Too many women deprioritize their own pleasure during sex
Club Venus's first community survey focuses on women's relationship to sex, pleasure and desire. The figures are sad, and are proof that we unfortunately still live in a society full...
Psychological violence: From self-hatred to self-love
My abuser was the first person I had a long-term sexual relationship with. I was sexually inexperienced when I gave myself to him, especially in relation to him. The experiences...
Review: Is Woody really a multifunctional wonder of a dildo vibrator?
Klub Venus describes Woody as a "multifunctional wonder of a dildo vibrator" - but is it? I'm fairly new to the world of pleasure products, and actually only bought my...
Pregnant: Just the thought of the tiny baby in my belly put an end to his desire for adult play
His libido had always been less than mine, but it was as if just the thought of the tiny baby in my belly put a final stop to his desire...
Pregnant: My sex drive disappeared like dew before the sun the second a sperm fertilized an egg in my body
I very rarely wanted to have sex with myself, or to have sex with my boyfriend, which was really difficult for both of us. But I just had. not. bright...
Eating disorder and sex: I couldn't stand it if I had to feel my body
When the eating disorder raged, sex was a huge challenge. It has been de-prioritised, sometimes impossible to carry out. Quite simply because my psyche could not see it and because...
Vulvodynia: When I first let my ex-boyfriend touch me, an unpleasant and almost excruciating pain occurred
For as long as I can remember, I have always associated my abdomen with pain or a feeling that something was wrong, from my first period, to my first sexual...
Sex mailbox: I have a very high sex drive, unlike my partner
I have a very high sex drive, which is the complete opposite of my partner. I am also very experimental where he is very conservative and generally won't try things...
Sex letterbox: Why do I have pain in my vagina after sex?
Why do I have vaginal pain after sex? And what can I do to avoid it? I've been trying to find something. For example, I have found a blog post...
Sex letter box: Is it okay to use a vibrator to achieve orgasm when you are with a partner?
I am a girl of 18 years and I have been masturbating for several years and can achieve orgasm every time - both with a vibrator, shower, hand etc. I...
Sex letterbox: I am chronically confused and find it difficult to understand myself
I am 20 years old and had my first boyfriend for 4 months but we broke up in January. I was running around and had a stomach ache all the...